| life after bowel cancer
many people diagnosed with bowel cancer will undergo successful treatment, and life can soon get back to normal.
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keeping positive during treatment, and asking for support when you need it, can help you get through the traumatic experience of having cancer.
you will be regularly tested to check that the cancer has not returned. if after five years, it has not returned, you are considered clear and it’s time to celebrate!
| returning home
hospital in-patient stays are getting shorter – operations using laparoscopic (keyhole) surgery can mean that you are only in hospital for four days or less, whereas open surgery may mean a stay of up to ten days.
patients may experience some anxiety when faced with leaving hospital after a major operation, about how they will manage at home and getting back to a normal routine. it may be several weeks before you feel that you have started to make a full recovery. in the first few days after coming home, you may find even simple tasks exhausting.
it is common to feel very tired, and to need to sleep and rest much more frequently, because your body simply needs time to heal. tiredness can also be caused by the side effects of the anaesthetic, lack of sleep while you were in hospital, the side-effects of your pain killers or discomfort from the surgery itself.
getting back to normal
don’t be in a rush to get back to normal. it can be tempting to try to do everything you used to do before going into hospital, but this can make you more tired and frustrated.
if you have people around, ask them to help with simple tasks like grocery shopping, or housework. this is especially useful for the first six weeks or so. if you live alone and do not have any support locally, there are organisations that can help for short periods, and this can often be arranged by your hospital team. do ask for this help when you are first admitted to hospital so that proper arrangements can be made.
tips for recovery after bowel surgery
how quickly you recover from an operation depends on your previous level of health and fitness as well as the type of surgery. if you are going to have radiotherapy or chemotherapy, this will add to your recovery time.
here are some suggestions that may help:
- take your painkillers regularly, as prescribed, until you no longer have pain or discomfort. you may need to do this for some weeks after surgery to help you move about comfortably.
- get out of bed and get dressed every day, helping to build up your strength.
- gradually start to increase your activity by doing some light jobs around the house.
- tell friends and family that it will take some time (at least six weeks) before you are back to your normal self and able to undertake all your usual activities.
- start doing some form of gentle exercise as soon as you can, several times a day. start with a short walk (10 minutes) and increase the distance as you feel able. by about six weeks you should be able to walk for half an hour or more.
- avoid lifting any heavy items and doing heavy household chores for at least six to ten weeks, thereby reducing the risk of developing a hernia or other complications.
- drink plenty of fluids and eat light, nutritious meals frequently throughout the day.
bowel habit in the first weeks
constipation is a common problem, which can be caused by a change in your diet, taking medications containing codeine and a general decrease in activity. if you are affected, do consider regular use of gentle laxatives prescribed by your gp to ease discomfort.
diarrhoea, increased frequency or urgency of bowel motions can also be common problems after bowel surgery. again, your gp can prescribe medication to help with this.
if you have one large wound, following emergency surgery or if a laparoscopic procedure resulted in open surgery, this can result in a longer hospital stay. after keyhole surgery you may have two or three small wounds, which heal more quickly.
if you have a large wound, your stitches or staples will be able to be removed around ten days after surgery.
things to look out for
contact your specialist or gp immediately if you experience any of these symptoms, which could be the result of an infection:
- a high temperature
- unable to eat or drink for any reason
- persistent diarrhoea, nausea or vomiting
- constipation for three days or more
- pain, swelling, redness or unexpected leakage around your wound or stoma
| longer term goals and challenges:
it is very common to feel low in mood at times once you go home. you may be feeling tired and sore, but also have time on your hands now to think about everything that has happened in the last few weeks. do try to allow yourself the space and time to come to terms with what has happened. trying to put a brave face on things can leave you feeling more isolated.
occasionally this low mood doesn’t lift and interferes with day to day tasks and enjoyment of life. in this situation you may be suffering from clinical depression and it is a good idea to speak to your gp or specialist. medications or counselling can be offered if needed and may be very beneficial.
whilst it is important to rest and recuperate, taking part in some normal day-to-day activities can be good physically and mentally. maybe start by meeting a friend for a cuppa, or walking to the local shop to buy a newspaper. your energy and confidence will return in time.
check with your specialist when it is safe to resume sexual activity. being intimate with cuddles and foreplay can help you to stay close to your partner until you feel ready for full intercourse. gradually your sexual function should return to normal, but if in time you are still having problems, you should mention it to your specialist or gp.
your bowel movements may be loose, frequent and unpredictable for some time after surgery. you have had a section of your bowel removed and it is unlikely that your bowel habit will return to exactly how it was before. it could take a few weeks or sometimes months, but it should eventually settle down into a routine. your gp can prescribe medication to help with this. it may also help to seek advice from a dietician or nutritionist.
eating and drinking
you may find that you cannot tolerate some foods that you used to enjoy. this is all normal and part of the recovery process. some foods may cause constipation, diarrhoea and / or wind; keeping a food diary may help you identify which foods seem to upset your bowels.
don’t drive for at least six weeks, until you are confident you can perform an emergency stop and you are no longer taking strong painkillers that may affect your concentration. do check with your insurance company, as some insurers will not provide cover for a period of time following a general anaesthetic.
have someone with you when you start driving again if possible. bowel surgery does not exempt you from wearing a seat belt.
going back to work
speak to your gp and/or specialist to confirm they are happy for you to go back to work – this is particularly important if your job involves physical activity. your hr or workplace health and safety department should be able to support you with any issues as you settle back to work.
| regaining bowel control
faecal incontinence (leaking faeces from the bottom) is much more common than people think, but it is not something that is talked about openly. however there are continence specialists who help people to overcome problems with their bowel control and you can ask your gp for a referral.
the information below describes exercises which may help you regain control. there are also some medicines which may help, if necessary.
how your bottom
there are two rings of muscle wrapped around the anus, called ‘sphincters’. when poo comes into the rectum one of the muscles relaxes and allows the poo enter the anus.
sensitive nerve endings in the anus can tell you if it is gas or poo waiting to come out. if it is poo, you squeeze the second muscle to stop it from coming straight out.
the squeezing moves the poo back into the rectum, where it waits until you get to the toilet. you may not be able to squeeze enough to hang on if your muscles are weak or have been damaged by surgery, or they do not squeeze in the correct order or the nerve supply to the muscles is damaged.
there are many different reasons why you might develop bowel leakage or incontinence following treatment for bowel cancer. for example, surgery which involves removing part of the bowel, shortening it or changing its shape, will affect its normal working pattern.
it can also change how sensitive the nerve endings around the bowel area are, or in rare cases, cause damage to the anus – the sphincter muscle which forms the entry into your rectum (back passage).
chemotherapy treatments can also cause side effects in the bowel, and these can take some time to settle down again. in a few cases, radiotherapy treatments can also cause short term and longer term changes to the way you are used to your bowel working.
whatever the reason, having a problem controlling your bowels can be upsetting. if you have had the distressing experience of a bowel accident in public, you will be acutely aware of the feeling of any pressure or filling sensation in your rectum which might mean you will need to find a toilet quickly. it is a natural reaction to try and prevent an accident by either tensing all your muscles and holding your breath or rushing to find a toilet. a better course of action is to sit or stand still, breathe deeply and contract your anal sphincter until the urge passes.
most people find that their emotions have an influence on their bowels. if you are worried or anxious it can lead to more frequent, more urgent, and looser bowel actions. if you panic when your bowel is full, this can cause the sense of urgency to become even stronger.
your rectum, your sphincter muscles and your confidence need retraining to help you overcome this problem.
learning to control your sphincter muscles
exercises can strengthen these muscles so that they give support again. this will improve your bowel control and improve or stop leakage of gas or poo. like any other muscles in the body, the more you use and exercise them, the stronger they will be.
imagine that your sphincter muscle is a lift. when you squeeze as tightly as you can, your lift goes up to the fourth floor. but you cannot hold it there for very long, and it will not get you safely to the toilet as the muscle will get tired very quickly. so now squeeze more gently and take your lift only up to the second floor. feel how much longer you can hold it than at the maximum squeeze.
you may not be able to do this at first. if the urge is too strong, start by trying to delay bowel emptying once you are sitting on the toilet. see how long you can wait until you really have to let go.
sit on the toilet and hold on for as long as you can before opening your bowels. if you can only manage a few seconds, don’t worry, it will become easier with practice. you might find it easier if you try to relax and concentrate on breathing very calmly. it may be helpful to take something to read.
once you are able to delay opening your bowels for a few minutes, the unpleasant urge to go then disappears. get up and leave the toilet. return a few minutes later when there is no urge and try to open your bowels.
gradually you will find that you can increase the distance and time away from the toilet. the more you practise this and the sphincter exercises below, the sooner it will happen.
eventually you should find that you are regaining control of your bowels. the longer you can hold on, the more fluid is absorbed from the poo and so the firmer and less urgent they become.
when you have some successes, you will become more confident. the less you panic, the easier it is to make the urge go away.
- sit, stand or lie with your knees slightly apart. now imagine that you are trying to stop yourself passing wind from your bowel. to do this you must squeeze the muscle around your back passage. try squeezing and lifting that muscle as tightly as you can, as if you are really worried that you are about to leak. you should be able to feel the muscle move. your buttocks, tummy and legs should not move much at all. you should be aware of the skin around your back passage tightening and being pulled up and away from your chair. you should not need to hold your breath when you tighten these muscles.
- tighten and pull up the sphincter muscles as tightly as you can. hold for at least five seconds and then relax for at least 10 seconds. repeat at least five times. this will work on the strength of your muscles.
- pull the muscles up to about half of their maximum squeeze. see how long you can hold this. then relax for at least 10 seconds. repeat at least five times. this will work on the endurance or staying power of your muscles.
- pull up the muscles as quickly and tightly as you can, then relax, and then pull up again. see how many times you can do this before you get tired. try for at least five quick pull-ups. do these exercises at least 10 times every day. as the muscles get stronger, you will find that you can hold for longer than five seconds, and that you can do more pull-ups each time without the muscles getting tired. remember that you cannot hold your tightest squeeze for very long, so it is better to use a gentle squeeze that you can hold for longer. your control will gradually improve. you may need to exercise regularly for several months before the muscles gain their full strength and continue to exercise to maintain your bowel control.
diet and medicines can affect your bowels as well
there are some foods and medicines that can affect how loose or firm your poos are and it may take a bit of time to work out which ones might be adding to or helping the problem.
| peripheral neuropathy
it is important for patients who are about to start a course of oxaliplatin (eloxatin) to work together with their specialist to understand and manage the side effects of this drug.
oxaliplatin is a common chemotherapy drug used in the treatment of bowel cancer which can cause temporary or long-lasting side-effects such as tingling or numbness in the hands and feet. being aware of these symptoms and reporting them to your specialist will allow them to make adjustments to your treatment regime to help reduce side-effects.
oxaliplatin is a platinum compound chemotherapy drug given to patients routinely to prevent recurrence or when their cancer has spread, locally into the lymph nodes or into other organs.
it is usually given in combination with other drugs for example, with:
- 5fu (folfox)
- capecitabine (xelox or capox)
- 5fu and irinotecan (folfoxfiri)
oxaliplatin is given as a slow, intravenous infusion which is repeated at regular intervals, every two or three weeks, depending on the treatment you have been prescribed. side-effects from oxaliplatin may include a sore mouth, feeling sick, diarrhoea and tiredness.
peripheral neuropathy is another common side-effect of oxaliplatin, which causes altered sensations in your hands and/or feet. this is because this drug can affect the nerve endings; the longer the nerve, the more likely it is to be damaged. nerves going to the hands, feet and lower legs are some of the longest in the body. it can also affect nerve endings in the neck or throat, causing feelings of tightness in the chest and jaw and a strange feeling in your tongue.
this side-effect is called peripheral neuropathy because it only affects the nerve ending in the extremities of your body, in particular the hands, feet and lower legs.
| short-term (acute) neuropathy
almost everyone who receives this chemotherapy will experience some degree of peripheral neuropathy soon after receiving the treatment.
the symptoms begin during or shortly after an infusion of oxaliplatin and usually disappear a few days after treatment ends. as treatment continues symptoms may last longer or become more noticeable.
they are often triggered by eating, drinking, or touching something cold or breathing cold air. most people cope well with the short-term symptoms of peripheral neuropathy with only a few changes to their lifestyle.
a change in sensation
you may have a feeling of heaviness, burning or pins and needles in the affected area. or, you may notice unusual sensations, such as a feeling of warmth or burning when touching something cold. or, you may notice a loss of sensitivity or feeling, starting in your feet and fingertips.
increased sensitivity and pain
for the first 48 hours after your treatment, you will feel much more sensitive to the cold. you may find that even light touch or pressure in the affected area feels uncomfortable or painful. you may experience a sharp or burning sensation, or it may feel like minor electric shocks. you may also feel a tingling in your face or tongue. if the pain becomes more severe, your specialist can prescribe medication to help relieve it.
difficulty with balance, walking and coordination
if your feet and/or lower legs are affected, this may make it difficult to walk, climb stairs or keep your balance. you may find that you stumble or trip more often, especially on uneven surfaces.
difficulty with everyday tasks
you may feel clumsy at times and less in control of your movements. if your fingers are affected, you may not be able to do ‘fiddly’ tasks, such as fastening buttons or tying your shoelaces.
things you can do to help
- it is important to protect your hands and feet by keeping them warm at all times.
- use gloves when you go out in cold weather and to avoid touching anything cold.
- wear socks to keep your feet warm. don’t walk around barefoot at home.
- cover your mouth with a scarf or face mask to filter cold air.
- don’t eat or drink cold or even cool foods. eat food that is at room temperature.
- don’t sit in an air-conditioned room or car.
- try to go for a walk every day, even for a short distance. this will prevent muscle weakness, which adds to your general lack of balance. wear soft shoes and add padded insoles to make walking less painful.
- do not wear tight fitting socks or shoes. ensure your socks are natural fibres to allow your skin to breathe.
| long-term (cumulative) neuropathy
as your treatment with oxaliplatin continues, the amount of platinum stored in your body builds up and this increases the risk of a longer-lasting sensory neuropathy in your hands and feet. you are more at risk of these effects if you have alcoholism, diabetes, vitamin b and/or nutritional deficiencies, or prior treatment with neurotoxic drugs.
neuropathy caused by oxaliplatin usually gets better once the treatment is stopped, although some patients will experience a temporary increase in symptoms after treatment ends.
however, if you have lingering numbness in your hands and feet between treatments, it is important to tell your specialist, because the cumulative numbness can be long lasting if the drug isn’t stopped promptly.
about 10-20% of patients will experience these long-term side-effects, which may persist for up to twelve months after treatment finishes. for a very small percentage of people, the changes will be permanent.
| keeping safe with peripheral neuropathy
- always test water with part of your body not affected by neuropathy, such as your elbow, before you bathe, shower, or wash dishes. turn your hot-water thermostat to a lower setting. it is easy to burn yourself if you cannot judge the temperature of water.
- always wear gloves when working in the garden and use oven gloves in the kitchen to avoid injury. take special care with kitchen knives and tools.
- clear your house and garden of things you might trip on such as rugs, slippery surfaces and clutter on stairs and steps. make sure rooms are well lit and always put a light on if you get up during the night.
- put a skid-proof mat in the bathtub or shower, and consider using a shower stool.
- if you have problems balancing or walking, ask for a referral to a physical therapist to strengthen muscles, build balance, or prescribe a walking aid. an occupational therapist may be able to help adapt your home so daily activities are easier and safer for you.
- check your feet every day for redness, injuries, or blisters and tell your specialist or nurse if you are concerned. it is important to avoid an infection developing.
it is very important to let your specialist know if symptoms of neuropathy last beyond a few days after a chemotherapy treatment.
keep track of tingling, pins and needles, numbness, pain, or difficulty with normal activities and let your specialist know if they are getting worse. it is possible to reduce the dose or to change your treatment regime so that oxaliplatin is given less frequently.
there are many treatments that can be tried to ease the discomfort and its effect on your life such as physical therapy, relaxation therapy, guided imagery, and acupuncture. if your symptoms don’t improve you may need to be referred to a pain clinic.
if your specialist thinks that you may be lacking in minerals, due to your diet, the amount of alcohol you drink or for some other reason, you may be given an infusion of calcium or magnesium to help reduce the symptoms.
if the oxaliplatin is stopped because of worsening symptoms, you will continue to receive the capecitabine or 5fu which is given with it. however, if your symptoms continue to get worse, your specialist may suggest that you try another type of anticancer drug or decide to give you a break from chemotherapy.